Pleae hele Is she lookin for a divorce?

i think she is telling you something, and you are not listening. this relationship is over from her perspective, and she doesn't want to compromise anymore. it is her right to say no to traveling overseas if she doesn't want to be married to you any longer. i suggest leaving her and giving it some time. try to work on it after a few mos., she may miss you, but that is all you can do for now.