Help with annoying parents!?

Hon, you have no way of ever being able to understand the demons your parents are fighting. We all have such high expectations when we are young - but life gets in the way and it's no place for sissies. What is important is that you stay true to who you are. Concentrate on your education, on getting a good solid career, and in becoming a healthy, independent, self-supporting adult. Then you might have a chance of breaking the cycle your parents have created and put you in the middle of. I wish you good luck.