Romantic or cheesy, flower petals sprinkeled accross the bed?

room cleaned, and the lighting is low, fragrant scent sprayed in the air and soft music playing in the back ground, is this what women really consider romantic or the hollywood version? what gets you in the mood, or discourages you because it is so commercialized as the expected norm? My husband is the cupid type, I am the practical realistic type, what is the majority for women? Would you be turned on and impressed by the atmosphere? or would you be disappointed by the commercialized version? Please advise